Sometimes the grief hits days later, as I am finding out.
As soon as the activity of the past busy week began to die down the mourning process began. I am not depressed and woeful all the time, but I find myself shedding tears easily and often.
It makes me especially grateful when I'm given a little tidbit like this that makes me laugh:
I was explaining to the boys, once again, that it is okay to be sad for us because we will miss grandpa, but that we can also be happy for grandpa that he is in such a wonderful place feeling so happy and free. I told them how I pictured grandpa watching over us and keeping us safe like St. Michael the Archangel, and how grandpa would always be with us. Every party we have he will be there. Every time we are afraid he will be there. He will always be watching over us.
I thought I had sufficiently explained and comforted the boys until Joey looked at me and said, "Um... mom? Does that mean Michael Jackson is watching over us too?"
You got some explaining to do, Lucy!
ReplyDeleteOMG. LMAO. That is great. I guess you will have to tell him yes?
ReplyDeleteNow that would scare the heck out of me!
ReplyDeleteSorry you're blue--I'm sure it's unavoidable. It sounds like your dad was one heck of a guy. Take care of yourself--be good to yourself.
AWKWARD!! LOL
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, that made me giggle...how funny is that...what can you possibly say in response to that?
ReplyDeleteHow funny...I love how kids' minds work!
ReplyDeleteOh what a sweetheart.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you!
*giggles* Now that IS funny! xoxo
ReplyDeleteDon't you love kids' minds?
ReplyDeleteIt's been nearly 12 years since my dad died and I always find comfort thinking that he's watching over me and cheering me on.
Alright, I didn't expect that last part. I had to giggle out loud at that.
ReplyDeleteI hope the healing process goes smoothly for you. It's never an easy thing to lose someone...
That's funny. Are you a little creeped out that MJ might be hovering around your house? LOL
ReplyDeleteThat's funny. Are you a little creeped out that MJ might be hovering around your house? LOL
ReplyDeleteHa! Ha! That is awesome! It is a logical conclusion! I am glad you were able to get a laugh out of it.
ReplyDeleteRiahli- I told them that "NO", MJ is not watching over them (he better not be!) because MJ didn't know them. Grandpa watches over them because he knew them and loves them. That seemed to satisfy them. ;)
ReplyDeleteHugs to you and your wee ones. Too sweet, they are. :)
ReplyDeletesmart kid. Personally I think that heaven would not be heaven if we can see Earth. But heaven is awesome, read some of Rev23 and find out just how cool it is and then rejoice to know!
ReplyDeleteKat, I am sorry that you are going through this now. You will miss your Dad. This baby is coming at a good time to bring new joy into your lives.
God knew all along and he planned it this way. To bring you joy.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeletethat's hillarious!!! what did you say???
ReplyDeleteKids say whatever is on their minds. Granpda is surely watching over your boys and soon to be little girl.
ReplyDeleteAh, the balm of little children!
ReplyDeleteThey somehow know how to make us laugh even in our grief, don't they?! What cuties you have!
ReplyDeleteOy Vey!!
ReplyDeleteYikes...that is funny...and not so funny. Oh, to have been a fly on the wall for your response.
ReplyDeleteAnd then you said.....??
ReplyDeleteThose boys keep you are you toes, don't they? ; )
Kids are AWESOME! They have an innate sense of timing (without realizing).
ReplyDeleteI can't count the number of times my children have saved me from despair.
Hang in there Kat.
Dear Kathryn,
ReplyDeleteam sorry to hear about your dad.
but your little one (Joey) is too cute asking that.. lol.
Your blog changed a lot...it look beautiful.
love and ((hugs))
bindi
Let's hope not! But I do think grandpa is and will always be looking out for your boys (and girl!). Big hugs to you!
ReplyDeleteKat,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I know how special he was to you. I will be thinking of you and your family.
Kids are so helpful in times like these. They bring innocence and humor and sometimes that is all you need to get you through the day. =)
Heather
Water just came out of my nose.. thats so funny
ReplyDeleteLOL You know whenever someone close to me dies I always think can they really watch over me? Usually these thoughts come when I'm in the shower, or picking a wedgie, or doing something else you try to do privately. It always makes me giggle. With death there has to be laughter or it would be so much harder to bare. Sorry for your loss!
ReplyDeleteKids.The things they come up with Kat.. That was a good one from the little guy..
ReplyDeleteThat was a good question. Will Frankie be here too? Sinatra,I mean of course.
ReplyDeleteHehehe, glad there are some bits of laughter mixed in with the grief. I think it's the best way, really. It can be a long journey, and taking whatever breaks we can find is more than allowed, especially when it's something this funny!
ReplyDeleteoh my, i am so very late in getting here that i am only now finding out your father passed away. my sincerest and deepest condolences. i am glad you have peace and comfort both from family and faith.
ReplyDeleteand this conversation...oh man, that IS hilarious! what young boy wouldn't be scared to think MJ is watching over them? LOL